From On The Inconvenience of Other People pg 45:
A foxhole is a place where one hides from bullets and strategizes the next aggression. In theirs, the desire for mutual flourishing in a world that would be worthy of the trust they longed to place in it turned out not to protect them from the couple form’s own ordinary dangers: where one demands patience for one’s own variations and stucknesses but moralizes against the other’s; where one’s revolutionary energies invert in a flash to the compulsion to repeat what works well enough.
